Saturday, November 18, 2006

A lesson in love

A lesson in love

   
Carl was a quiet man. He didn't talk much. He would always greet you  with a big smile and a firm handshake.

 
Even after living in our neighborhood for over 50 years, no one could  really say they knew him very well.

 
Before his retirement, he took the bus to work each morning. The lone  sight of him walking down the street often worried us.

 
He had a slight limp from a bullet wound received in WWII.

 
Watching him, we worried that although he had survived WWII, he may  not make it through our changing uptown neighborhood with its ever-increasing random violence, gangs, and drug activity.

 
When he saw the flyer at our local church asking for volunteers for  caring for the gardens behind the minister's residence, he responded in hi s characteristically unassuming manner. Without fanfare, he just signed up.

 
He was well into his 87th year when the very thing we had always  feared finally happened. He was just finishing his watering for the day when  three gang members approached him. Ignoring their attempt to intimidate him,  he simply asked, "Would you like a drink from the hose?"

 
The tallest and toughest-looking of the three said, "Yeah,  sure," with a malevolent little smile. As Carl offered the hose to  him, the other two grabbed Carl's arm, throwing him down. As the hose snaked  crazily over the ground, dousing everything in its way, Carl's assailants  stole his retirement watch and his wallet, and then fled.

 
Carl tried to get himself up, but he had been thrown down on his bad  leg. He lay there trying to gather himself as the minister came running to  help him. Although the minister had witnessed the attack from his  window, he couldn't get there fast enough to stop it.

 
"Carl, are you okay? Are you hurt?" the minister kept asking  as he helped Carl to his feet.

 
Carl just passed a hand over his brow and sighed, shaking his  head  "Just some punk kids. I hope they'll wise-up someday."


 

 
His wet clothes clung to his slight frame as he bent to pick up the  hose. He adjusted the nozzle again and started to water.

 
Confused and a little concerned, the minister asked, "Carl, what  are you doing?" "I've got to finish my watering. It's been  very dry lately," came the calm reply.

 
Satisfying himself that Carl really was all right, the minister could  only marvel. Carl was a man from a different time and place.

 
A few weeks later the three returned. Just as before their threat was  unchallenged. Carl again offered them a drink from his hose.

 
This time they didn't rob him. They wrenched the hose from his hand  and drenched him head to foot in the icy water.

 
When they had finished their humiliation of him, they sauntered off  down the street, throwing catcalls and curses, falling over one another  laughing at the hilarity of what they had just done.

 
Carl just watched them. Then he turned toward the warmth giving sun,  picked up his hose, and went on with his watering.

 
The summer was quickly fading into fall, Carl was doing some tilling  when he was startled by the sudden approach of someone behind him. He  stumbled and fell into some evergreen branches.

 
As he struggled to regain his footing, he turned to see the tall  leader of his summer tormentors reaching down for him. He braced himself for  the expected attack.

 
"Don't worry old man, I'm not gonna hurt you this time." The  young man spoke softly, still offering the tattooed and scarred hand to Carl.  As he helped Carl get up, the man pulled a crumpled bag from his pocket and  handed it to Carl.

 
"What's this?" Carl asked. "It's your stuff,"  the man explained. "It's your stuff back. Even the money in your  wallet." "I don't understand," Carl said. "Why would you help me now?"

 
The man shifted his feet, seeming embarrassed and ill at ease. "I  learned something from you," he said. "I ran with that gang and  hurt people like you. We picked you because you were old and we knew we could  do it. But every time we came and did something to you, instead of yelling  and fighting back, you tried to give us a drink. You didn't hate us for  hating you. You kept showing love against our hate." He stopped for a  moment. "I couldn't sleep after we stole your stuff, so here it is  back."

 
He paused for another awkward moment, not knowing what more there was  to say. "That bag's my way of saying thanks for straightening me out, I  guess." And with that, he walked off down the street.

 
Carl looked down at the sack in his hands and gingerly opened it. He  took out his retirement watch and put it back on his wrist. Opening his  wallet, he checked for his wedding photo. He gazed for a moment at the young  bride that still smiled back at him from all those years ago.

 
He died one cold day after Christmas that winter. Many people attended  his funeral in spite of the weather. In particular the minister noticed a  tall young man that he didn't know sitting quietly in a distant corner of the  church.

 
The minister spoke of Carl's garden as a lesson in life. In a voice  made thick with unshed tears, he said, "Do your best and make your  garden as beautiful as you can. We will never forget Carl and his garden."  

 
The following spring another flyer went up. It read:
"Person needed to care for Carl's garden."

 
The flyer went unnoticed by the busy parishioners until one day when a  knock was heard at the minister's office door.

 
Opening the door, the minister saw a pair of scarred and tattooed  hands holding the flyer. "I believe this is my job, if you'll have  me," the young man said.

 
The minister recognized him as the same young man who had returned the  stolen watch and wallet to Carl.

 
He knew that Carl's kindness had turned this man's life around. As the  minister handed him the keys to the garden shed, he said, "Yes, go take  care of Carl's garden and honor him."

 
The man went to work and, over the next several years, he tended the  flowers and vegetables just as Carl had done.

 
In that time, he went to college, got married, and became a prominent  member of the community. But he never forgot his promise to Carl's memory and  kept the garden as beautiful as he thought Carl would have kept it.

 
One day he approached the new minister and told him that he couldn't  care for the garden any longer. He explained with a shy and happy smile,  "My wife just had a baby boy last night, and she's bringing him home on  Saturday."

 
"Well, congratulations!" said the minister, as he was handed  the garden shed keys. "That's wonderful! What's the baby's  name?"         "Carl,"  he replied.

 

 
That's the whole gospel message simply stated.

 
Take 60 seconds give this a shot! Let's just see if Satan stops this  one.

 
All you do is:

1. Simply say a small prayer for the person who sent you this.

Father, God bless this person in whatever it is that You know he or  she may be needing this day!

 
2. Then send it on to five other people. Within hours five people have  prayed for you, and you caused a multitude of people to pray to God for other  people.

 
Then sit back and watch the power of God work in your life for doing  the thing that you know He loves.

 
GOOD FRIENDS ARE LIKE ANGELS, YOU DON'T HAVE TO SEE THEM TO KNOW THEY  ARE THERE.


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